Since my Omma passed away last last year I feel like I've been going through an identity crisis. I've lost the grasp on my Korean-ness. I've had to learn to dig deep to remember and to push myself to read and speak Korean, even if it's just to myself. Everyday, I take a moment to look at myself in the mirror and remind myself of who I am. A Korean-American woman. It will be through my memories that I find my identity again.
Looking at this photo I see my mother's eyes. She was always face forward in her actions and her thoughts. Eyes full of unconditional love and compassion. Eyes that I miss so very much. I will honor her memory by doing my best to do the same. Love everyday. Love fully. Happy Mother's Day, Omma. I love you.
Thank you for writing this beautiful post!
Posted by: Oz | May 14, 2006 at 23:28
After you lose someone you love the first milestones are extremely difficult. Your love and respect for your mother are apparent. I hope I am remembered by my daughter with equal tenderness.
Posted by: mj | May 14, 2006 at 23:39
You have your omma's eyes.
Posted by: jinhuikim | May 15, 2006 at 15:43
it is a so beautiful homage to your mother. She must have been a wonderful person!
Posted by: Poppy (Paris, France) | May 15, 2006 at 22:42
i didn't recognize you at first in the profile portrait. beautiful. and what a lovely entry for your mother. xo
Posted by: cyn | May 16, 2006 at 01:06
The others are right, that was an extremely beautiful post.
Posted by: samantha | May 16, 2006 at 14:07
This post brought tears to my eyes. Your Omma must have been an exeptional woman to give you this much strength and love. Take care!
Posted by: Emma | May 16, 2006 at 17:36
I don't know if I can really add much except to say that this is one of the most beautiful and complex sentiments that I have ever read.
Thinking about you.
Posted by: mary-margaret | May 17, 2006 at 06:16